*all the hugs* You're an amazing parent. This has got to be rough, and you are handling it just right - including venting here about how hard it is on you personally. I have high hopes that therapy and medication will help, and then you'll be hearing a lot less about aliens.

Also, it is extremely selfish of me, but I am super hopeful that Adam gets into and is interested to attend UW Madison, because heeeeeey, guess who lives in Madison... ;)