if anyone lived in a pretty how town

I didn't mean to be critical or anything. You know best, better than anyone. Whatever you do will be right. I am just concerned, in general. You know how harmful labels and diagnoses can be. They are misused, in my opinion, in general. I think diagnostic categories should be used as guides for therapists and psychiatrists. And then only at the very beginning of a therapeutic relationship. Most therapists agree with me, I suspect. The fact these criteria and labels have escaped into the general world is regrettable, I think. But that's all abstraction.

This must be so draining. I hope you are taking care of yourself.